March 15, 2009 at 6:33 pm (All posts, Thoughts, general)
Tags: acceptance, learn, mistake
its fun when we are kids… we make mistakes and no one cares… and we learn from mistakes … but when we grow up… everyone becomes so critical about our mistakes… then we try to not to make any mistake rather than learning from our mistakes… this is a negative approach…
the best way to learn is to learn from your own mistakes…
so dont be afraid of making mistakes because you will learn from your mistakes. Secondly, dont repeat your mistakes. This is important. Make mistakes but accept them and try not to make them again. That’s how you will learn.
Acceptance of one’s mistakes is important. I have seen many people who do not try to see their own mistakes when they fail. If you wont accept your mistakes, you wont count them as your mistakes and you wont correct them.
So, i wish that you always make new mistakes, and learn from your each mistake made. Also make sure to write comments because it makes me correct my mistakes… 
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November 8, 2008 at 6:06 pm (All posts, Self Exploration, Thoughts, general)
Tags: learning, lessons, life
Lessons for life are everywhere but you need a desiring eye to see and pick them. I like cartoon movies they have hidden messages. One can learn many things from them. I have pets and I learnt many things from them as well. But you need a desiring eye. By desiring eye I mean; if you are ready to learn, If you want to learn, If you want to improve yourself.
Thats what i have learnt so far. Lessons are everywhere and in everything. Never cease to learn. It will keep you alive. It will keep you working. You can learn from a little kid as well.
The more I learn the more I know that i know nothing. There are so many things to learn here. So many things to discover. So many things to explore.
I wish that this candle of learning is always lit in your heart. It will take you far.
I had exams please pray for my success… thank you…:)
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August 11, 2008 at 1:05 pm (All posts, Self Exploration, Thoughts, general)
Tags: care, change, love, world
“Changing the Face” can change nothing. But “Facing the Change” can change everything. Don’t complain about others; Change yourself if you want peace.
Our problem is that we always complain about others. We do not be the change we wish to see in this world. We talk more and do less. Our actions are mainly self-centered, we live for ourselves. We do not love and care for each other. That’s the modern world.
Lets help and love each other. You may not get all the things you want but you will get satisfaction and love in return which are the most precious things in this world. We want environment around us to be in our favour, we do not try to change ourselves in order to make the environment better.
I vow that i will try to change the environment around me and i will begin with myself. I will be the change i wish to see in this world InshAllah. Even though i may fail, but i wont stop trying.
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July 18, 2008 at 9:36 am (Self Exploration, Thoughts)
Tags: first step, holidays, resolution
Holidays always bring me some time to spend with myself… i make so many resolutions with myself when i am ill and before any major test or exam… there are some things that i want to change in myself…
there are some things i want to add to myself and some i want to remove from myself…
i want to be more regular and more concerned about my studies… i want to give time to Allah … i want to read Quran as regularly as possible…
i want to be more careful about my health… i want to loose weight…
i know i can achieve these things but i have not started them…
first step is the key… inshAllah i will take the first step today…
May Allah help me in my journey…
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May 27, 2008 at 6:17 pm (All posts, Thoughts, events, general)
Tags: come true, dream, How would my dreams come true, speech
I live in dreams and when I wake up from my dreams. My dreams are not over. They have just begun.
You see things and say “Why”… But i dream things that never were and say “Why not”…
Dreams are illusions for some people but for me they are real and unique. No two individuals can have same dreams because every person has his own feelings, emotions, and experiences.
I see myself, my friends in my dreams. It is because I think so much about them.
In my dreams I can fly, I can run on water. I may not be able to do these things but I want to … so dreams for me are a means of self exploration. Through my dreams i get to know what I want to do and dreams are an insight into my true self.
i have a lot of dreams. My dreams are very simple they are not larger than life…
i want to make into my class cricket team
i want to become a successful doctor
i want to become an obedient student
i want to become a good son and a good muslim
I want to travel to another countries to help needy people. So that I have stories to tell when I get old.
My biggest fear is to live a pointless life. i want to live my life to its fullest.
“Hold fast to dreams, For if dreams die, Life is a broken-winged bird that cannot fly, Hold fast to dreams, For if dreams go, Life is a barren field, Frozen with snow”
We must have a dream that motivates us. No one has ever achieved anything without a dream attached to a burning desire.
Often I am faced with this question that would my dreams come true. And my answer is that I got to make my dreams come true. I know I can. I know I must. It’s gonna happen. As long as I last I wont give up. My dreams will be true. They will grew big. I will make them real. All my wishes and dreams I will get them one day. Then I will go and lay, sleep and get more dreams. And when I wake up again my dreams are not over they have just begun.
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April 26, 2008 at 8:19 pm (All posts, Self Exploration, Thoughts, events)
Tags: class, fears, standing up, supervisor
First intraclass competition of our class was held in our college and i was named as its supervisor. I took it as a challenge because I had never done these kind of organizing activities. I had always hated organizing things. I thought that i was not good at them. So i didnt take part in these kind of activities. But this time i was ready to face my fears.
It was a very good experience for me. All the students of our class participated in it. Everyone helped and supported me. Some evil persons are always there, but i accept my classfellows as they are. I accept their good as well as bad things.
I took part in english speech and stood first in english speech competition. It was my maiden speech and i was confused too.
Mushtaq, Shoaib, Qaiser, Saeed, Farhat, and Arshad Ali’s speeches were good. But for me Mushtaq was man of the show.
I want to thank some people that supported me. First of all i would like to thank Latif for being so active and sincere. He helped me a lot. As Mushtaq said he worked like 5 men. Rahim Gul and Fayaz worked efficiently. Shaheer was also good with charts. Neelam Nazir and Rehana Taskeen designed the charts and arranged them well. Imran as always is simple and helpful. Farman, Khalida Ikram and Huma Nazir were good compares.
Ayesha Manzoor with a monalisa’s smile on her face, was helpful. I never minded her criticism. I took it positively and it helped me building a good environment. Three people impressed me. Sara Gul with her devotion, Sumera Asfand with her knowledge, Shehzad with his passion.
At the end i want to thank my deariest and lovely friends Omer Amin, Fawad, Shoaib and Qaiser for helping, supporting and beleiving in me.
I saw for the first time a leader in me during the arrangements of this event.
I wish I could be one …
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April 13, 2008 at 10:32 am (All posts, Visits, general)
Tags: lahore, pakistan, visit
I went to lahore, the heart of pakistan, for some days with my father. It is a wonderful city to be in. There are so many good places in it, like Badshahi Mosque, Minar-e-Pakistan, Lahore Fort, etc. Lahore’s people have big hearts and they share things. They are very humble and polite and they like eating. We also went to food street. We had very tasty dinner there. We went to Wahga border as well. It was an emotional sight. I liked Lahore very much. It is worth visiting place.
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April 5, 2008 at 11:45 am (All posts, Self Exploration, Thoughts, general)
Tags: me, perfect
Everyone here is not perfect, so am I but I am proud to say that I am ME.
Everyone has his or her own limitations. We all are human beings, we cant be perfect like angels. But lets try to be like ourselves. For that first of all we have to realise who we really are. If we can find ourselves. Then we can be like us. The real us and lets be like ourselves.
The problem here with people is that they are not theirselves. They are forced to be someone else. They have lost their individuality and personality. They are dummies and machines. I have seen dead people walking on the streets. People that do not have personality are like robots, they are not alive. They are dead.
Always be yourself, because the people who mind dont matter and the people who matter dont mind.
I wish and pray that we find ourselves.
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April 4, 2008 at 9:13 am (All posts, Share, Thoughts, general)
Tags: happiness, steps to happiness
I found this article somewhere on the net and found it interresting so i am sharing it with you.
Everybody Knows:
You can’t be all things to all people.
You can’t do all things at once.
You can’t do all things equally well.
You can’t do all things better than everyone else.
So:
You have to find out who you are, and be that.
You have to decide what comes first, and do that.
You have to discover your strengths, and use them.
You have to learn not to compete with others,
Because no one else is in the contest of *being you*.
Then:
You will have learnt to accept your own uniqueness.
You will have learnt to set priorities and make decisions.
You will have learnt to live with your limitations.
You will have learnt to give yourself the respect that is due.
And you’ll be a most vital mortal.
Dare To Believe:
That you are a wonderful, unique person.
That you are a once-in-all-history event.
That it’s more than a right, it’s your duty, to be who you are.
That life is not a problem to solve, but a gift to cherish.
And we’ll be able to stay one up on what used to get us.
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March 16, 2008 at 11:03 pm (All posts, general)
Tags: Exams, Rules, Success
I have my six golden rules to get success in any exam and i am going to share them with all of you today. They work for me. I hope they work for you as well.
Hard work is necessary in achieving any goal. So, you should work hard to prove yourself. Do not waste your talent and potential. If you believe in yourself that you can do it, then start working hard to prove your point. There are no shortcuts to good results, you must go through the hard way to score good marks. Now, if you are prepared to do the hard work, then let’s move a step forward.
The second step is regularity. It is important to develop the habit of studying daily. There is no importance of studying in gaps, it is useless really. Regularity is something which can be developed. I have done that by myself and I know you can do that too, if you are prepared for that.
The third step is the time management. To manage your time is to manage yourself. You should be a good manager if you want to get any position. Remember, to choose time is to save time. You should give every subject the time it deserves depending upon the number of marks each subject have.
You should ask a question from yourself everyday when you woke up. The question is mentioned below.
What would I do today?
You can check whether you are managing your time or not by asking yourself another question daily when you woke up.
Am I heading towards my goal?
Self assessment is also necessary, because it will help you remove your mistakes. Find out where you got wrong in any problem you did wrong. Note your mistake and then try to avoid this mistake in future. Determine the factors which are wasting your time and remove them from your routine.
Get wise and learn from your past mistakes. So start your study schedule from the very beginning, it will reduce the burden of study when the exam is nearer.
Don’t let yourself down. Make amends. There is always room to repair. Prove everyone wrong from your progress. There are examples of people around us when they have bounced back from worst situations and achieved their goals. My advice is to meet with such people to boost your confidence.
Best of luck for your exams. Remember me in prayers…:)
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